Imagine you walk into your back yard to see a gang of wild animals desecrating your property (no, I'm not talking about gangs of male hoodlums. I'm talking about a mother raccoon and her kids. City dwellers tend to think of them as cute critters and part of the community, ignoring the serious issues they cause. They are actually filthy, disease carriers and viscious when confronted.
In Toronto, one of the most liberal cities in North America, you will be hauled away in handcuffs and charged with weapons offences for defending your property from them. Apparently, the laws in Ontario are simply ridiculous. According to The Star, you are not allowed to move them more than one kilometer, if you trap them. I've never studied wildlife, but I can't see that one kilometer - about 3/5ths of a mile being very far for a raccoon. You can't remove babies if they're less than 6 weeks old (I guess drowning them is a big no-no). Meanwhile, having a wildlife service remove a family could cost you over $1,000. Here we are with a well meaning government regulation basically removing our rights and making us helpless to defend ourselves. Home owners are supposed to throw their hands in the air, call someone and fork over a wad of cash if their homes are being invaded. Here is another example where people are required to defer their own protection (much like they have personal responsibility) to other people - the so-called professionals. Am I alone in wanting to be able to take a matter into my own hands once in awhile without being afraid of incarceration?
A heroic voice of reason from the land of two car families. Mild-mannered family man goes roaming the Internet defending truth on behalf of the everyman.
Thursday, June 2, 2011
Tuesday, May 31, 2011
Pinker - The Blank Slate, Preface
I just picked up Steven Pinker's The Blank Slate The Modern Denial of Human Nature and I wonder how I managed to avoid this book for so long. I'm sure that I've read it quoted many a time at various blogs but even the preface reads as if Pinker read my thoughts and articulated them better than I ever could (I really should have studied more in school).
I blame the Bobo Experiment. Everyone in my university took Psych 101. One of the most prominent and easiest to remember sections was on Albert Bandura's experiment that seemed to suggest that children could be taught not to behave aggressively by being shown positive role models - and only positive role models. I wondered, while I read about the text book, why there wasn't already a formula for world peace over 30 years after this remarkable discovery. Whenever this came up and someone tried to argue that this proved violence/rape/theft/etc. were learned behaviours, I tried to point out that human nature has a role in such negative behaviour too. I believe that my inability to keep my mouth shut on this subject was the main reason I didn't have many dates in University.
My goal in this book is not to argue that genes are everything and culture is nothing - no one believes that - but to explore why the extreme position (that culture is everything) is often seen as moderate, and the moderate position is seen as extreme.
Nor does acknowledging human nature have the political implications so many fear. It does not, for example, require one to abandon feminism, or to accept the current levels of inequality or violence, or to treat morality as a fiction. For the most part I will try not to advocate particular policies or to advance the agenda of the political left or right. I believe that controversies about policy almost always involve tradeoffs between competing values, and that science is equipped to identify the tradeoffs but not to resolve them. Many of these tradeoffs, I will show, arise from features of human nature, and by clarifying them I hope to make our collective choices, whatever they are, better informed.It is so sweet to read words like these. It's like the first time I read Bertrand Russel only without the glassy eyed idealism that always left me shaking my head. He continues.
The refusal to acknowledge human nature is like the Victorians' embarrassment about sex, only worse: it distorts our science and scholarship, our public discourse, and our day-to-day lives.Trying to talk to most intelligent, well-educated people about child-rearing, food or politics is always frustrating for me because someone always tries to point out that we're only conditioned to think and act the way we do... and if "we could only get past our preconceptions we can become anything we want." [Eye-roll-to-face-palm-to-double-fist-clench-gaze-to-the-heavens-to-double-handed-forehead-slap-pull-hair-to-primal-scream]. How many times did I meet a girl who seemed reasonably intelligent and we got along so well until we hit this wall.
I blame the Bobo Experiment. Everyone in my university took Psych 101. One of the most prominent and easiest to remember sections was on Albert Bandura's experiment that seemed to suggest that children could be taught not to behave aggressively by being shown positive role models - and only positive role models. I wondered, while I read about the text book, why there wasn't already a formula for world peace over 30 years after this remarkable discovery. Whenever this came up and someone tried to argue that this proved violence/rape/theft/etc. were learned behaviours, I tried to point out that human nature has a role in such negative behaviour too. I believe that my inability to keep my mouth shut on this subject was the main reason I didn't have many dates in University.
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Sunday, May 29, 2011
Man Up? When Did Men Supposedly Man Up?
Jack Donovan revisits Kay Hymowitz's Where Have All The Good Men Gone and gets me to wondering when men supposedly "Manned Up" as she asks.
I think about how my father "manned-up". Sure he got married and worked a rather tedious job to put four kids through university - earning the reputation as a stand-up, hard-working guy. But, he had hunting trips that were non-negotiable at certain times and hunted and fished on a whim at other times as seasons, time and conditions permitted. He laughed the year I told him I was missing our annual bass fishing trip because my wife was due within two weeks (the high-alert zone). When he wanted to go, he "just went" he told me. He played sports year round taking much of his week-nights. I think that these activities were as much his entertainment as today's young generations play X-box or Playstation.
If Kay and the others expect young men to put their game controllers away in the closet once they enter a serious relationship, she's going to have to re-think things. That's like asking a woman to give up shopping, decorating, romance novels/movies, baking, pedicures, facials or any other of the typically womanly hobbies or activities that she loves. Our activities define us. By paroting the feminist shaming and denegration of male activities as purile and juvenile, she's justifying the notion common among women that men who partake in them are not worthy of their attention and if they do, they must drop these activities entirely and focus on their new "serious" relationship. Meanwhile, woman's pursuits are somehow vaunted, intellectual and meaningful? I'm at a loss seeing why perfecting red velvet cupcakes is somehow more meaningful than playing a video game with someone on the other side of the world.
Kay is completely oblivious to the motivations that drive men to their pursuits. She tries to argue that hunting and fishing were just hobbies created because "They balked at the stuffy propriety of the bourgeois parlor, as they did later at the banal activities of the suburban living room." I'm sorry, but that is just silly. My father learned to hunt during the depression when a gun cost $15 and a box of shells cost 50 cents and a bad weekend of hunting meant a week with very little meat on the table. He doesn't hunt to get out of the house, he hunts because it is a part of who he is.
With the current state of Marriage 2.0, there is very little incentive for a young male to sacrifice even a portion of their pursuits until they are good and ready and their mate is understanding. Kay says that single men "continue to be more troubled and less successful than men who deliberately choose to become husbands and fathers." This fact simple says that The higher earning men find women willing to let them golf, fish, hunt and play video games while the middle of the pack simple bide their time until the right deal comes along. Why should they compromise themselves because some self-absorbed woman feels that his pursuits are disgusting and purile.
I think about how my father "manned-up". Sure he got married and worked a rather tedious job to put four kids through university - earning the reputation as a stand-up, hard-working guy. But, he had hunting trips that were non-negotiable at certain times and hunted and fished on a whim at other times as seasons, time and conditions permitted. He laughed the year I told him I was missing our annual bass fishing trip because my wife was due within two weeks (the high-alert zone). When he wanted to go, he "just went" he told me. He played sports year round taking much of his week-nights. I think that these activities were as much his entertainment as today's young generations play X-box or Playstation.
If Kay and the others expect young men to put their game controllers away in the closet once they enter a serious relationship, she's going to have to re-think things. That's like asking a woman to give up shopping, decorating, romance novels/movies, baking, pedicures, facials or any other of the typically womanly hobbies or activities that she loves. Our activities define us. By paroting the feminist shaming and denegration of male activities as purile and juvenile, she's justifying the notion common among women that men who partake in them are not worthy of their attention and if they do, they must drop these activities entirely and focus on their new "serious" relationship. Meanwhile, woman's pursuits are somehow vaunted, intellectual and meaningful? I'm at a loss seeing why perfecting red velvet cupcakes is somehow more meaningful than playing a video game with someone on the other side of the world.
Kay is completely oblivious to the motivations that drive men to their pursuits. She tries to argue that hunting and fishing were just hobbies created because "They balked at the stuffy propriety of the bourgeois parlor, as they did later at the banal activities of the suburban living room." I'm sorry, but that is just silly. My father learned to hunt during the depression when a gun cost $15 and a box of shells cost 50 cents and a bad weekend of hunting meant a week with very little meat on the table. He doesn't hunt to get out of the house, he hunts because it is a part of who he is.
With the current state of Marriage 2.0, there is very little incentive for a young male to sacrifice even a portion of their pursuits until they are good and ready and their mate is understanding. Kay says that single men "continue to be more troubled and less successful than men who deliberately choose to become husbands and fathers." This fact simple says that The higher earning men find women willing to let them golf, fish, hunt and play video games while the middle of the pack simple bide their time until the right deal comes along. Why should they compromise themselves because some self-absorbed woman feels that his pursuits are disgusting and purile.
Thursday, May 26, 2011
Parents Hiding Gender of Child
I guess it was only a matter of time before someone took the step of putting the absurdity of non-gender ideology to the test at the expense of their child's future mental health. What do they hope to achieve? What is the "more progressive place" where they think we are heading behind their lead? Why do some see the erradication of gender identities as a worthwhile goal?
http://toronto.ctv.ca/servlet/an/local/CTVNews/20110524/Toronto-parents-child-gender-110524/20110524?hub=TorontoNewHome
http://toronto.ctv.ca/servlet/an/local/CTVNews/20110524/Toronto-parents-child-gender-110524/20110524?hub=TorontoNewHome
Monday, May 23, 2011
SWPLS Hate Nature
I am borrowing the term SWPL because I don't have a better term for PC Liberals - the so-called right-thinking people, the enlightened ones. Basically, anyone who thinks that we're all trying to find "a better way to live" and one day we can eliminate violence from the world - our nature be damned.
Why do I think that they hate nature despite all their granola munching, organic-food buying, North Face hiking boot wearing and Subaru Forester driving? I had a conversation with one the other day - a very nice woman I know.
CDH: I saw a crow swoop down and take a baby robin right from the nest on my neighbours house.
Very Nice Woman: Oh my gosh. That's just awful.
CDH: I thought it was so cool to see that part of nature.
VNW: I don't think so.
CDH: So you don't like nature?
VNW: I love nature, just not when it's... like...
CDH: That is nature. It's the essence of nature. Don't you like crows?
VNW: I like them, just not...
CDH: What about hawks?
VNW: I like hawks too, but..
[change the subject to avoid uncomfortable moment]
Another example was posted on facebook profile of an old high-school friend about the coyote's affect on the population of her barn cats. She said that she hated it when wild animals kill one another.
How can people live with this one-sided, rosy view of nature. Marketers constantly pander to our inherent "Love of nature" with cute animals and flowers and trees. I think it speaks to the cognitive dissonance in the minds (and the entire mindset) of the Left-wing picture of nature.
Note: Now when I refer to Animal Rights Activists and their supporters, I shall call them Bunny Huggers or Animal-loving Left-Wing Nutjobs.
Why do I think that they hate nature despite all their granola munching, organic-food buying, North Face hiking boot wearing and Subaru Forester driving? I had a conversation with one the other day - a very nice woman I know.
CDH: I saw a crow swoop down and take a baby robin right from the nest on my neighbours house.
Very Nice Woman: Oh my gosh. That's just awful.
CDH: I thought it was so cool to see that part of nature.
VNW: I don't think so.
CDH: So you don't like nature?
VNW: I love nature, just not when it's... like...
CDH: That is nature. It's the essence of nature. Don't you like crows?
VNW: I like them, just not...
CDH: What about hawks?
VNW: I like hawks too, but..
[change the subject to avoid uncomfortable moment]
Another example was posted on facebook profile of an old high-school friend about the coyote's affect on the population of her barn cats. She said that she hated it when wild animals kill one another.
How can people live with this one-sided, rosy view of nature. Marketers constantly pander to our inherent "Love of nature" with cute animals and flowers and trees. I think it speaks to the cognitive dissonance in the minds (and the entire mindset) of the Left-wing picture of nature.
Note: Now when I refer to Animal Rights Activists and their supporters, I shall call them Bunny Huggers or Animal-loving Left-Wing Nutjobs.
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